Almost all the girls I knew in high school 20 years ago who thought this way are on government assistance. They can't find a decent job that pays a living wage with decent hours and benefits. No education. No skills. No useful knowledge. No retirement. No savings. No hope for their future or their kids' futures. Don't be one of them. Be a "self rescuing princess". Make your own dreams come true and take care of your own damn self instead of expecting someone else to do it for you!