...and she is complaining. She trust you to complain to you. It doesn't have to be one thing or the other. A person you love should be able to tell you whatever; even if it is complaining, criticism, heart felt issues, whatever. Trust and friendship are thus. If all she does is complain, then you need to brighten her world up and give her confidence so she can enjoy you and life and shut out the monsters from her main focus of living well. Healthy friendship.