No doubt. You see their true colors. The beginning is (almost) ALWAYS gum drops and lollipops with a narcissist. Even when it's bad they convince you it isn't. But you don't know they're a narcissist in the beginning. You won't until they lock you in. Then you'll see the truth. Everyone's warnings fall on your deafened ears. The narcissist isolates you from others and doesn't allow you to listen to opinions or advice. You'll see. In advance, I'm sorry anyone has to learn the hard way.