And all the men say it loud, smiling as they recall learning these lessons well, knowing that in that very thought they are ignorant still - yet with an awareness that draws from them a hearty and resounding testosterone-infused shout of "Amen, brutha! Ain't nothin' but the truth!" (And then they turn to each other laughing, knowing that there is no sense in kidding one's self. "What about them bears?" comes a confused and nervous voice from somewhere in the back of the room.) Right, guys?