Do not mistake someone's caring, loving and patience for boring or nice. Passion, love, lust excitement, romance can come when you have shown you are worth it. Sometimes we, both men and women hold back those things for the right person because we have found far too many wrong people who do not see what is inside. Those things are not always though what you should be looking for. One day it will be the boring things, the love, patience and caring that will be the qualities you will wish you had in partner to grow old with.